Mesothelioma Lawyers San Diego : Happy Valentines Day!

Ok, well, I wanted to blog today but I don't have anything specific to blog about so in honor of Valentines Day, I'm just going to answer love/relationship related questions.

Who do you like and Why?

My favorite youtuber Mark, because he's just a genuinely nice guy with a great personality and sense of humor.

Have you ever been in love? If yes, how many times, and how do you know it was love?

I have been, only once. I knew because he made me get this feeling I never got with any of my other boyfriends.

Longest relationship you've ever been in, and why did it end?

2 1/2 years, and it ended because it had gotten to a point where he spent more time on his xbox than he did with me, and that's cool, I don't care, I didn't really like him, all that much anyway, and he was sexually and emotionally abusive.

Have you ever changed for someone, if yes, how?

No. I feel like if you're with someone you want to change, that's not a relationship, that's a power trip (if that makes... sense). You should be with someone for who they are and how they make you feel, if you feel in anyway that you should change them, or that it's your job to change them, then you shouldn't be with them.

Pretend I'm your ex, what do you want to say to me?

Well, uh, depends on which one lol. If it's my first ex, then I want to say go to hell, you're a fucking prick.

Have you ever been cheated on?

No.

Have you ever cheated?

No.

Would you date someone who's known for cheating, if yes why?

I'm honestly not sure.

What's the most important part of a relationship?

Honesty, communication, and trust.

Do you like to be in serious relationships or just flings?

I like to be in.. I wouldn't call them serious or a fling, they're just there. It'd be the kind of relationship where you started out as friends and developed into more and you get along amazingly and it's just one of those things where you're with a person who accepts you completely for who you are and what you are.

If that's a serious relationship, then I guess that. :P

When you are dating someone do you believe in going on "breaks"?

If you need time to think about what you want, then yes.

How many people have you ever hooked up with?

None.

What's one thing you regret saying or not saying, doing or not doing in a previous relationship?

I regret not standing up for myself more in my first relationship, but let it be known that when I would confront him about everything he did to me he would act like it was nothing and then make me feel stupid if I cried.

What age do you think is appropriate for kids to start having sex?

I'd say at least older than 14. Like... when you're ready and know at least a few things about sex and what it is to be in a sexual relationship or a relationship where you actively have sex.

Do you believe in the phrase, "Age is just a number?" Why or why not?

No, I don't. Not only are there laws to respect but people have boundaries you have to accept also. I'm sure there have been older guys who have used that line to try and coerce someone younger into being with them. Take Onision for example (I still have to post a post about him, lol) he tends to go for girls in the 17-18 age range (he's 27 or 28) because, I think, he finds that it's easier to manipulate them because they're still young and easy to influence. Plus, I mean, his current girlfriend/wife is a HUGE fan of his that he started dating when he moved closer to her after they started talking on twitter. Since she was and still is a huge fan, who wouldn't jump at the chance to be with someone they really want to be, or that they're a huge fan of? I feel like he took that to his advantage.

What about "Love at first sight"? Why or why not?

You can believe in this if you want but I don't simply because you can't see someone's personality just by looking at them. How much I like someone depends greatly on their personality.

What do you consider a deal breaker?

If you're pushy, abusive, a fucking prick, too distant and not willing to communicate about why, you're controlling, or you're just not honest.

How do you know it's time to end a relationship?

It varies from person to person. For my first relationship, it was time to end it because he was worsening my depression and I just wasn't happy and it wasn't a healthy relationship so I started staying at home more until I finally got myself to break up with him. For my 3rd relationship, I had to end it because he was too busy with friends and uni and all that to talk to me, plus, I mean, I don't know if he was joking when he's do that, but he'd put down my taste in music which annoyed me and made me feel like I had to change my music taste for him.

Are you currently in a relationship? If yes, for how long? If no, how long have you been single?

Nope. It'll be a year in March that I've been single.

Do you think people who have dated can stay friends?

I am still friends with 2 of my exes, so yes.

Do you think people should date their friends?

If you have mutual feelings for each other, yes. Having a good, solid friendship as a base for a relationship really, IMO, helps to make it last.

How many relationships have you had?

3, lol.

Do you think love can last forever?

I'd like to believe in 'soulmaates' so, yes.

Do you believe love can conquer all things?

It depends on the 'things'.

Would you break up with someone your parents didn't approve of?

No. It depends on what they don't approve of, but then there's the fact that they don't know him like I do, or they haven't known him long enough to know that much about him. If they pointed out that he was bad for me in anyway, I'd try to see it for myself and then do something based on that.

If you could go back in time and give yourself one piece of advice about dating what would it be?

Don't be with someone just because you want to 'feel' loved, or because you think someone finally likes you, so you might as well date them. Hence my first relationship.